I have some more pictures. Anohter member of the team has sent photos to post. I will get them up ASAP.
It is interesting to see the trip from a different view point. Again, many of the pictures were taken by the children.
I also have found out I can post my videos.
I will get them up in a few days.
I have a few more thoughts that I will post and than news about the nursery project.
Thank you all for reading my blog and I will need your support very soon so keep checking for new updtes.
Sunday, August 14, 2011
One week later
I have been home one week now and I ask myself have I changed any.
Yes, but in what ways?
I have really started to think how I can help the people where I live right now in my own area.
Then will I go back next year to Honduras or on a different mission trip? Also how can I help the people I just left in Honduras while I am here in the Michigan?
Volunteering here in my own area is something I now have to start, it is time, and I know that. In the past I have wanted to start doing something but for whatever reason I have not. I have worked in our community garden when I can and that is great.
Here is the link to the garden blog.
I do know this by the end of the year I will be involved in some type of work.
My girl friend Maryjo wants to get involved in community work so together we will find a project.
Will I go back or go on a different mission trip. I have been to Haiti (2010) and now Honduras(2011). I want to go back to Honduras, one will be money and the other reason will be getting the time off and if any trips are still open.
I do know this I will go with International Samaritan because how they co-ordinate things on the mission trip, safety, food, guide, security. They partner with the government and the local people and the work they do is sustainable. They make a difference and they work to keep it that way and ongoing.
Here is the link to their web page. International Samaritan
How can I still help the people from where I am right now? Steven Basile and myself when we saw the damage to the nursery we both felt this has to be fixed. So we are working on putting a project together. I hope to have news on that in the next week or so.
I am trying to be more patient, this is hard for me but I am trying. I also know that I try to control things when I do not need to and that I have to keep working on. I saw this in me while I was in Honduras. This will take time but I will keep trying.
I also saw lots of happiness in the people and the children of Honduras in the forms of smiles and enjoying the simple things life gives them.
I learned I am out of shape and have started to work out. That is good for the long run. I lost 8 pounds and I want to keep it off.
So have I changed yes, all for the good I feel. Some of the change will take time and I will keep at it.
The people of Honduras have changed me. I am thankful for that.
I have found three quotes I want to share with you that help sum up my feelings about this trip and where I am at in my life right now.
“Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.” Oprah Winfrey
“When you choose not to focus on what is missing from our lives but are grateful for the abundance that’s present..we experience heaven on earth.”Sarah Ban Breathnatch
“Knowing that the best things in life aren’t things.” Unknown
Yes, but in what ways?
I have really started to think how I can help the people where I live right now in my own area.
Then will I go back next year to Honduras or on a different mission trip? Also how can I help the people I just left in Honduras while I am here in the Michigan?
Volunteering here in my own area is something I now have to start, it is time, and I know that. In the past I have wanted to start doing something but for whatever reason I have not. I have worked in our community garden when I can and that is great.
Here is the link to the garden blog.
I do know this by the end of the year I will be involved in some type of work.
My girl friend Maryjo wants to get involved in community work so together we will find a project.
Will I go back or go on a different mission trip. I have been to Haiti (2010) and now Honduras(2011). I want to go back to Honduras, one will be money and the other reason will be getting the time off and if any trips are still open.
I do know this I will go with International Samaritan because how they co-ordinate things on the mission trip, safety, food, guide, security. They partner with the government and the local people and the work they do is sustainable. They make a difference and they work to keep it that way and ongoing.
Here is the link to their web page. International Samaritan
How can I still help the people from where I am right now? Steven Basile and myself when we saw the damage to the nursery we both felt this has to be fixed. So we are working on putting a project together. I hope to have news on that in the next week or so.
I am trying to be more patient, this is hard for me but I am trying. I also know that I try to control things when I do not need to and that I have to keep working on. I saw this in me while I was in Honduras. This will take time but I will keep trying.
I also saw lots of happiness in the people and the children of Honduras in the forms of smiles and enjoying the simple things life gives them.
I learned I am out of shape and have started to work out. That is good for the long run. I lost 8 pounds and I want to keep it off.
So have I changed yes, all for the good I feel. Some of the change will take time and I will keep at it.
The people of Honduras have changed me. I am thankful for that.
I have found three quotes I want to share with you that help sum up my feelings about this trip and where I am at in my life right now.
“Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.” Oprah Winfrey
“When you choose not to focus on what is missing from our lives but are grateful for the abundance that’s present..we experience heaven on earth.”Sarah Ban Breathnatch
“Knowing that the best things in life aren’t things.” Unknown
Thursday, August 11, 2011
The people and sights from a different view
Another member of our team has shared their photos with me.
It is very interesting, each member of the team has taken pictures and in some ways they are all different.
We all took similar shots but maybe from a different angle. I know in seeing the pictures of the “ dump” my memory of the smell is right in front of me as I view the pictures.
Also the pictures of the children, in the nursery are just great.
Smiles, smiles, smiles, how happy the children always seem to be.
It is very interesting, each member of the team has taken pictures and in some ways they are all different.
We all took similar shots but maybe from a different angle. I know in seeing the pictures of the “ dump” my memory of the smell is right in front of me as I view the pictures.
Also the pictures of the children, in the nursery are just great.
Smiles, smiles, smiles, how happy the children always seem to be.
Monday, August 8, 2011
Stay Tune
I hope you will not stop viewing the blog because over the next few weeks I plan on posting more information about our trip.
Many of the members are going to share some of their photos and I am sure you will get a different view of what went on from there vantage point.
I also hope to make an announcement about some future fund raising that I hope you will help us with.
This will be a very special project that will impact so many children in a positive way back in Honduras.
One of the messages I am left with is how do I continue to help the people in Honduras but also the people where I live because so many are also in need right here in my home town of Detroit.
I know many people volunteer all over the world but many do right in their own home area, my hat is off to each and every one of you regardless of where you volunteer. Keep up the great work. We all are making a difference.
Lastly, if you have not been a trip like this look into it, International Samaritan is a TOP SHELF organization.
Many of the members are going to share some of their photos and I am sure you will get a different view of what went on from there vantage point.
I also hope to make an announcement about some future fund raising that I hope you will help us with.
This will be a very special project that will impact so many children in a positive way back in Honduras.
One of the messages I am left with is how do I continue to help the people in Honduras but also the people where I live because so many are also in need right here in my home town of Detroit.
I know many people volunteer all over the world but many do right in their own home area, my hat is off to each and every one of you regardless of where you volunteer. Keep up the great work. We all are making a difference.
Lastly, if you have not been a trip like this look into it, International Samaritan is a TOP SHELF organization.
Coming Home
The day started like any of the last 5 days. I got up around 6 am along with my roommate Steven and we got ready before anybody else and than about 6:30 am Matt started knocking on all the doors to make sure we all were up and getting ready.
We had our morning prayer and then off to breakfast.
What was different is we were getting ready to go home not to go and work at the school and play with the children.
It was a strange feeling for me at least but as we got ready we all shared thoughts and memories of the last few days.
Another thing that was different is that a certain smell was coming from one room. It was bad. Enough said on that subject. Just BAD.
As like anything we did this week we worked as a team getting stuff loaded and making sure we all had our stuff.
We took one last team picture in front of the retreat house.
I took some pictures of the trip to the airport.
Team work was also at work at the airport as different people stood in different lines to make our process a little bit quicker to maneuver their exit process to make sure we had enough time to get to our gate.
Before we left a few members took advantage of buying JW Blue for a great price at the tax free store.
In Atlanta we said good bye to Katherine as she went her way home and we went ours.
The HONDURAS 11 was now the HONDURAS 10 in numbers only.
We all made it back to Detroit and home before midnight. Katherine let us know she made it home safely also.
Now it was time for each of us to process this experience in our own way and share our thoughts and memories with others and see if we can continue to make a difference but in a different way for the friends we left back in Honduras.
We had our morning prayer and then off to breakfast.
What was different is we were getting ready to go home not to go and work at the school and play with the children.
It was a strange feeling for me at least but as we got ready we all shared thoughts and memories of the last few days.
Another thing that was different is that a certain smell was coming from one room. It was bad. Enough said on that subject. Just BAD.
As like anything we did this week we worked as a team getting stuff loaded and making sure we all had our stuff.
We took one last team picture in front of the retreat house.
I took some pictures of the trip to the airport.
Team work was also at work at the airport as different people stood in different lines to make our process a little bit quicker to maneuver their exit process to make sure we had enough time to get to our gate.
Before we left a few members took advantage of buying JW Blue for a great price at the tax free store.
In Atlanta we said good bye to Katherine as she went her way home and we went ours.
The HONDURAS 11 was now the HONDURAS 10 in numbers only.
We all made it back to Detroit and home before midnight. Katherine let us know she made it home safely also.
Now it was time for each of us to process this experience in our own way and share our thoughts and memories with others and see if we can continue to make a difference but in a different way for the friends we left back in Honduras.
Saturday, August 6, 2011
Going Home
Well, activity is normal in a way around the retreat house.
It is 6:30 am and Matt has knocked on each door telling us it is time to get ready but it is different. Instead of getting into our work clothes we are getting dressed to go home.
Right now I am alone on the patio, the morning sounds are the same, roosters crowing, various birds chirping, animals running between the bushes and the noise of the traffic can be heard.
Activity behind me is taking place, voices, showers, and laughter, mixed in with the occasional I am up you go in the shower first.
The feeling is different, I am different. Different how and in what ways?
We will see as time moves forward both for me and the rest of the team.
What is different I am going home today.
It is 6:30 am and Matt has knocked on each door telling us it is time to get ready but it is different. Instead of getting into our work clothes we are getting dressed to go home.
Right now I am alone on the patio, the morning sounds are the same, roosters crowing, various birds chirping, animals running between the bushes and the noise of the traffic can be heard.
Activity behind me is taking place, voices, showers, and laughter, mixed in with the occasional I am up you go in the shower first.
The feeling is different, I am different. Different how and in what ways?
We will see as time moves forward both for me and the rest of the team.
What is different I am going home today.
Friday, August 5, 2011
Day 6
I have so many feelings right now it is very hard to sort them out.
What I ask of the people who are following this is to check back during the next week.
I want to share my observations with you all but I need some process time.
I will have new pictures and hopefully videos of us dancing with the children.
Again,many of the pictures are taken by the children they love using anybodies camera and taking pictures. It is always about the children, we must not forget that.
Today, Matio (Matt), did everybody proud. Job well done Matt. Nuff said.
Right now I am going to have some mindless fun and play cards.
In less than 24 hours we will be seeing family at the airport and the Honduras 11 might be physically separated but never spiritually.
Hi, Maryjo, hope all is going well.
ENJOY THE PICTURES
Oh,by the way let me tell you a story....
What I ask of the people who are following this is to check back during the next week.
I want to share my observations with you all but I need some process time.
I will have new pictures and hopefully videos of us dancing with the children.
Again,many of the pictures are taken by the children they love using anybodies camera and taking pictures. It is always about the children, we must not forget that.
Today, Matio (Matt), did everybody proud. Job well done Matt. Nuff said.
Right now I am going to have some mindless fun and play cards.
In less than 24 hours we will be seeing family at the airport and the Honduras 11 might be physically separated but never spiritually.
Hi, Maryjo, hope all is going well.
ENJOY THE PICTURES
Oh,by the way let me tell you a story....
In the national news of Honduras
Thursday, August 4, 2011
In the News
Please click on the link to read an article about the Kovach and Basile family.
Read story.
I hope you enjoy the story.
Read story.
I hope you enjoy the story.
Day 5 General Wrap Up
Lots took place today. We had a “thank you” program from the children at the nursery where we saw a traditional Honduran dance.
The children presented us with a rosary and we prayed together.
We ate a special treat that they made for us that had chicken and carrots rolled in a pastry. It was very good.
The children love taking pictures with our cameras of themselves and us so some of those pictures are included.
We went shopping two days ago and bought a lot of “snacks” to enjoy when we play cards and just sit around and talk.
The sign is made for the dedication of the building on Friday, all U of D alumni , friends and family of “The High” should be proud.
We gave the diapers and the rest of the school supplies today and it was just a productive day.
All in all work got done and as the saying goes “All work and no play makes Johnny a dull boy..”
We worked and played.
Now off to win a few hands in euchre.
The children presented us with a rosary and we prayed together.
We ate a special treat that they made for us that had chicken and carrots rolled in a pastry. It was very good.
The children love taking pictures with our cameras of themselves and us so some of those pictures are included.
We went shopping two days ago and bought a lot of “snacks” to enjoy when we play cards and just sit around and talk.
The sign is made for the dedication of the building on Friday, all U of D alumni , friends and family of “The High” should be proud.
We gave the diapers and the rest of the school supplies today and it was just a productive day.
All in all work got done and as the saying goes “All work and no play makes Johnny a dull boy..”
We worked and played.
Now off to win a few hands in euchre.
Planting
Today for the first time we were all together at the same time on a project. This past week we did many projects but not all 11 at one time.
We had to plant something like 40 to 50 trees/bushes today.
It was just amazing, Ben and Paul were our “leaders” and they did a great job of dividing us up into various tasks to get this project done. We were on a timeline of less than 2 hours to dig, plant, water, and secure the plants. So all 11 of us worked together for the first time, we “jelled” as they say.
The really amazing thing is that when we started the children had a break from class but instead of playing many of them started to help us plant the trees.
As a group we were amazed, we all felt something special was taking place, more than planting a trees and bushes.
I only have a few pictures so enjoy.
I hope to get some more from the other guys.
We had to plant something like 40 to 50 trees/bushes today.
It was just amazing, Ben and Paul were our “leaders” and they did a great job of dividing us up into various tasks to get this project done. We were on a timeline of less than 2 hours to dig, plant, water, and secure the plants. So all 11 of us worked together for the first time, we “jelled” as they say.
The really amazing thing is that when we started the children had a break from class but instead of playing many of them started to help us plant the trees.
As a group we were amazed, we all felt something special was taking place, more than planting a trees and bushes.
I only have a few pictures so enjoy.
I hope to get some more from the other guys.
All work and no play…
Day 5 brought about some very unique experiences for the group.
We actually had some interaction time with the students that were more than the 10 to 15 minutes we usually get. All in all in was about an hour total.
I think it started when a student jumped on Ben’s back and he gave him a “horsey ride.”, Then Peter or Tim had a student climb all over his back and then the fun just broke out. Lines formed in front of each guy as students were flying in the air and being turned upside down. It was amazing!
Smiles became the order of the day: Kids learned duck, duck, goose, and the jump rope came out. It was fun!
Steven Basile made the comment that “it was an U of D Amusement park”
We all had been waiting for this moment.
Enjoy the pictures.
We actually had some interaction time with the students that were more than the 10 to 15 minutes we usually get. All in all in was about an hour total.
I think it started when a student jumped on Ben’s back and he gave him a “horsey ride.”, Then Peter or Tim had a student climb all over his back and then the fun just broke out. Lines formed in front of each guy as students were flying in the air and being turned upside down. It was amazing!
Smiles became the order of the day: Kids learned duck, duck, goose, and the jump rope came out. It was fun!
Steven Basile made the comment that “it was an U of D Amusement park”
We all had been waiting for this moment.
Enjoy the pictures.
Early morning random thoughts Day 5
The sounds of the birds each morning are a wonderful sound.
The court yard is a great place to think any time of the day.
I am learning yoga from the guys to help stretch my back (thanks Coach Putman).
We made it past hump day.
Peter and John thank you for helping me with yoga.
Big day today, lots of work has to get finished.
Rotary is a great group, they do good work. I see it here where I am at. Clean water is so important.
I love the rides to and from the work site. The conversation in the van is priceless.
We are a team of 11 but our team is more than just us 11.
We want to make the people before us proud because there work got us to the finish line and we will get to cross it for them but they will be with us as we dedicate the two class room school for 7th and 8th grade.
It rained last night it makes it a harder day I think becasue most of the homes have leaky roofs.
Strange when you are working the mosquito bites do not bother you but you start scratching them when you are back at the ranch they reappear and you notice them. How is that?
Really living and understanding " Men for others "is difficult, yet very simple.
I feel the prayers of the people who are praying from us many times during the day when I seem to get a burst of strength.
We become creative when we have to when at times you do not have what you need but you find a away.
Life is good, I am blessed and GOD is great and loving. We just have to open ourselves up to his love because his love is every where.
The court yard is a great place to think any time of the day.
I am learning yoga from the guys to help stretch my back (thanks Coach Putman).
We made it past hump day.
Peter and John thank you for helping me with yoga.
Big day today, lots of work has to get finished.
Rotary is a great group, they do good work. I see it here where I am at. Clean water is so important.
I love the rides to and from the work site. The conversation in the van is priceless.
We are a team of 11 but our team is more than just us 11.
We want to make the people before us proud because there work got us to the finish line and we will get to cross it for them but they will be with us as we dedicate the two class room school for 7th and 8th grade.
It rained last night it makes it a harder day I think becasue most of the homes have leaky roofs.
Strange when you are working the mosquito bites do not bother you but you start scratching them when you are back at the ranch they reappear and you notice them. How is that?
Really living and understanding " Men for others "is difficult, yet very simple.
I feel the prayers of the people who are praying from us many times during the day when I seem to get a burst of strength.
We become creative when we have to when at times you do not have what you need but you find a away.
Life is good, I am blessed and GOD is great and loving. We just have to open ourselves up to his love because his love is every where.
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
David
It was Monday and we were in the nursery, people were dancing and all of a sudden I felt a pull on my leg. It was a small young boy named David pulling me into another room. He was all alone.
He took me over to a small horse and he pointed for me to get on it with him. The smile on his face was priceless.
We played for a while and then went out to go dance with the rest of the group.
Each day since Monday David has found me to give me a hug and sit on lap for a few minutes.
I have attached a picture of David and me.
He took me over to a small horse and he pointed for me to get on it with him. The smile on his face was priceless.
We played for a while and then went out to go dance with the rest of the group.
Each day since Monday David has found me to give me a hug and sit on lap for a few minutes.
I have attached a picture of David and me.
Day 4: an overview
Many tasks were completed today: new toilets in the nursery, and door locks were changed. Other fix-it- up projects were done along with people again helping out in the nursery, reading, bathing, playing.
I have not been able to do that yet but everybody who has has said it is very rewarding.
The BIG PROJECT was cutting grass. I can only tell you, I have never worked so hard in my life. Now my age might have something to do with it but you add heat and humidity and the physical activity of swinging that machete, all I can say is I did my best.
The best I could do was work maybe 5 minutes then take a 15 minute break. We were the MACHETE MACHINE (Peter, Nick, Ben, Paul, Tim, and John) they worked 20 to 30 minutes at a time with about a 5 to 10 minute break in between. They were amazing! Parents when your sons get home, ask them about cutting grass. You should know when Steven, Ashlynn and Catherine got done with their work they also came and helped out. Cutting grass by hand is very humbling.
I have attached the pictures I took today that cover a lot, including what we see when we drive to the work site. Some friends of mine gave me school supplies and I have a picture of us giving some of them to one of the classes (Thank you Tim and Deb).
Some pictures show us riding in the back of a truck just like native Hondurans. Other pictures show our activities with the children and of course cutting grass, enjoy the pictures.
We also learned how to sharpen our machetes.
I have not been able to do that yet but everybody who has has said it is very rewarding.
The BIG PROJECT was cutting grass. I can only tell you, I have never worked so hard in my life. Now my age might have something to do with it but you add heat and humidity and the physical activity of swinging that machete, all I can say is I did my best.
The best I could do was work maybe 5 minutes then take a 15 minute break. We were the MACHETE MACHINE (Peter, Nick, Ben, Paul, Tim, and John) they worked 20 to 30 minutes at a time with about a 5 to 10 minute break in between. They were amazing! Parents when your sons get home, ask them about cutting grass. You should know when Steven, Ashlynn and Catherine got done with their work they also came and helped out. Cutting grass by hand is very humbling.
I have attached the pictures I took today that cover a lot, including what we see when we drive to the work site. Some friends of mine gave me school supplies and I have a picture of us giving some of them to one of the classes (Thank you Tim and Deb).
Some pictures show us riding in the back of a truck just like native Hondurans. Other pictures show our activities with the children and of course cutting grass, enjoy the pictures.
We also learned how to sharpen our machetes.
What do I miss the most?
Yes it is hot and humid, so many of you might think air conditioning. NO, that is not it. One reason is that I do not have AC in my house at home.
In fact my room here is very cool with the big fan in the room.
Others might think cooking, but the food here has been great.
For me it is every day when I take a shower at home I rinse my mouth out under the shower. We are unable to do that because the water here has lots of parasites in it.
It might sound stupid to some but I miss doing that each morning.
I cannot wait to take a shower at home and do that.
In fact my room here is very cool with the big fan in the room.
Others might think cooking, but the food here has been great.
For me it is every day when I take a shower at home I rinse my mouth out under the shower. We are unable to do that because the water here has lots of parasites in it.
It might sound stupid to some but I miss doing that each morning.
I cannot wait to take a shower at home and do that.
Going viral
Working in the Healthcare field “going viral” might be a negative phrase, but in the world of the Internet it is a good thing.
Various team members have brought it to my attention that I have a lot of people following my “SteveinHonduras” blog.
I replied “but I only have 7 people signed up as followers.” As it has now been explained to me, “ number of followers” and “hits” are two completely different ways of monitoring who is looking at your web page.
In fact, I have been told I have had over 700 hits so far. I cannot believe that many people are following what I am posting.
I also understand that UDJHSA has me linked to a facebook page (I do not have a facebook page) so I am sure a lot of CUBS are following this because we have “CUBS” on this trip that are all alumni.
So I have been thinking why not use this blog for some good.
There are many needs where we are working. For instance, they were running low on diapers at the nursery, so a few of us chipped in and bought some diapers tonight (children with “stinky pants” in any country is not a good thing).
In that spirit, I would like call to your attention that International Samaritan has a web page that allows people to donate.
If we have 600 people reading my posts and each person gave $10.00, we could raise some serious money to help address basic needs down here.
So for the next few days, if you are reading this blog, please donate.
Here is how you can do it.
Just click on the word donate on the International Samaritan page and fill out the information.
Let them know it is for Honduras.
Thank you very much.
Various team members have brought it to my attention that I have a lot of people following my “SteveinHonduras” blog.
I replied “but I only have 7 people signed up as followers.” As it has now been explained to me, “ number of followers” and “hits” are two completely different ways of monitoring who is looking at your web page.
In fact, I have been told I have had over 700 hits so far. I cannot believe that many people are following what I am posting.
I also understand that UDJHSA has me linked to a facebook page (I do not have a facebook page) so I am sure a lot of CUBS are following this because we have “CUBS” on this trip that are all alumni.
So I have been thinking why not use this blog for some good.
There are many needs where we are working. For instance, they were running low on diapers at the nursery, so a few of us chipped in and bought some diapers tonight (children with “stinky pants” in any country is not a good thing).
In that spirit, I would like call to your attention that International Samaritan has a web page that allows people to donate.
If we have 600 people reading my posts and each person gave $10.00, we could raise some serious money to help address basic needs down here.
So for the next few days, if you are reading this blog, please donate.
Here is how you can do it.
Just click on the word donate on the International Samaritan page and fill out the information.
Let them know it is for Honduras.
Thank you very much.
Good Morning Honduras Day 4
A good night sleep again, went to bed late because I wanted to try and keep up with my posting.
I have stated do I really know why I am here? We do something each night called reflections; you do not have to talk or share your thoughts but it is a great way to share your inner feelings. The saying about Vegas “what is done in Vegas stays in Vegas”, well that should hold true for here. I can share with you my thoughts but the thoughts of others I will respect.
One of the nice things about this process is the sharing of thoughts. One team member might make a comment on their observation or feeling that you might not have thought at all or viewed from that point of view.
The insight my team members have is great and Matt(our I.S. Leader) does a wonderful job of just waiting long enough to see if people will speak or share our thoughts.
For me I do feel I know why God has me here at this place right now in my life.
My life is in flux in many ways.
My oldest son is in his last year at law school (Wayne State). Just got done with a great internship at a large law firm and now he has to think where his next step is going to be.
I feel helpless at times because I am not in control or cannot control the situation.
I am not a lawyer or a professional so what he is going through is different but yet it is similar to things I went through in my life.
Peter is going off to school. Loyola New Orleans. Really being on his own. Again not in control of the situation. Is he ready, did we do a good job ?
I am dating and Maryjo is just a wonderful lady, I am happy, but again not totally in control.
I am also in many ways not a patient person.
Here I am in Honduras and as we work I want to get going and move and get the task done. The pace is different, it can be slow. I want to get moving but im not in control of what is going on.
I am learning more to have faith in how the work will get done and be patient about how and when and who will do the work. I do not have to be in control and let it work out.
I realize back at home I do have to set the pace for some work and have to set the example and be in control of projects but not all the time. This goes for home life also.
So I feel God has put me here to learn to be a patient person and I do not have to be in control all the time.
I wanted to do something with my boys because in a way this was the last year we all lived together in the house. They are growing up. The trip was the one thing we could share.
What I have learned and have been shown is that they are fine and ready to go and I will be there to support them. I have seen my boys in a completely different light.
I can let go in some ways.
It is time for breakfast and prayer and off we go.
More later. Praye for all of us today for strength to get the work done.
I have stated do I really know why I am here? We do something each night called reflections; you do not have to talk or share your thoughts but it is a great way to share your inner feelings. The saying about Vegas “what is done in Vegas stays in Vegas”, well that should hold true for here. I can share with you my thoughts but the thoughts of others I will respect.
One of the nice things about this process is the sharing of thoughts. One team member might make a comment on their observation or feeling that you might not have thought at all or viewed from that point of view.
The insight my team members have is great and Matt(our I.S. Leader) does a wonderful job of just waiting long enough to see if people will speak or share our thoughts.
For me I do feel I know why God has me here at this place right now in my life.
My life is in flux in many ways.
My oldest son is in his last year at law school (Wayne State). Just got done with a great internship at a large law firm and now he has to think where his next step is going to be.
I feel helpless at times because I am not in control or cannot control the situation.
I am not a lawyer or a professional so what he is going through is different but yet it is similar to things I went through in my life.
Peter is going off to school. Loyola New Orleans. Really being on his own. Again not in control of the situation. Is he ready, did we do a good job ?
I am dating and Maryjo is just a wonderful lady, I am happy, but again not totally in control.
I am also in many ways not a patient person.
Here I am in Honduras and as we work I want to get going and move and get the task done. The pace is different, it can be slow. I want to get moving but im not in control of what is going on.
I am learning more to have faith in how the work will get done and be patient about how and when and who will do the work. I do not have to be in control and let it work out.
I realize back at home I do have to set the pace for some work and have to set the example and be in control of projects but not all the time. This goes for home life also.
So I feel God has put me here to learn to be a patient person and I do not have to be in control all the time.
I wanted to do something with my boys because in a way this was the last year we all lived together in the house. They are growing up. The trip was the one thing we could share.
What I have learned and have been shown is that they are fine and ready to go and I will be there to support them. I have seen my boys in a completely different light.
I can let go in some ways.
It is time for breakfast and prayer and off we go.
More later. Praye for all of us today for strength to get the work done.
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
End of a busy Day
The pictures you will see are just random pictures I took today. Transportation is so important here. Anything that can be made move people or trade is used.
Today in fact walking back from the nursery, a horse just came running down the road, nobody on it just went right by me.
You see kids riding on anything they can get their hands on.
The housing you will see is right b y the school it is a “squatter’s village”. Tonight it was raining and again I was thinking of the family with the holes in the roof and the water just running through the house and the floors just all muddy.
Today at lunch my son Nick was just wiped out and he got in a “cat nap”.
But most of all the interaction with the children is “priceless”. Our team has just embraced this activity. It is something to see.
Every time we have a break in the action children are attracted to us.
Many of the team mebers can talk in spanish and it is interesting as they try to find words to express what is going on.
I can barely speak English but I am trying my best at Spanish.
I have a few pictures of the main church as we drove by it today and the city main square.
In one of the many conversations that go on ; Ben made a statement that hit home for me. We were talking aabout my "picking" activity. He reminded me of the bible story of the lady who could only give 2 cents but it is all she had and it was the best she could at the time. He said Mr. Kovach you gave your best all day what more could anybody ask for.
I hope you enjoy the pictures. Time for bed. Day 4 has new adventures for us all.
Today in fact walking back from the nursery, a horse just came running down the road, nobody on it just went right by me.
You see kids riding on anything they can get their hands on.
The housing you will see is right b y the school it is a “squatter’s village”. Tonight it was raining and again I was thinking of the family with the holes in the roof and the water just running through the house and the floors just all muddy.
Today at lunch my son Nick was just wiped out and he got in a “cat nap”.
But most of all the interaction with the children is “priceless”. Our team has just embraced this activity. It is something to see.
Every time we have a break in the action children are attracted to us.
Many of the team mebers can talk in spanish and it is interesting as they try to find words to express what is going on.
I can barely speak English but I am trying my best at Spanish.
I have a few pictures of the main church as we drove by it today and the city main square.
In one of the many conversations that go on ; Ben made a statement that hit home for me. We were talking aabout my "picking" activity. He reminded me of the bible story of the lady who could only give 2 cents but it is all she had and it was the best she could at the time. He said Mr. Kovach you gave your best all day what more could anybody ask for.
I hope you enjoy the pictures. Time for bed. Day 4 has new adventures for us all.
cutting grass
I wish I had a push lawn mower or a weed wacker. Grass here gets cut the old fashioned way with a machete.
When we have time between projects cut grass. It is some of the hardest work around. John & Steven Basile seem to have the best form.
Our security guards helped us out today and tried to show us the best way to cut the grass. They can really cut grass when they start swinging.
They showed us how to sharpen the machete by rubbing it against the brick wall. We do not have a sharpening stone and we make do with what we have.
Check out our form.
When we have time between projects cut grass. It is some of the hardest work around. John & Steven Basile seem to have the best form.
Our security guards helped us out today and tried to show us the best way to cut the grass. They can really cut grass when they start swinging.
They showed us how to sharpen the machete by rubbing it against the brick wall. We do not have a sharpening stone and we make do with what we have.
Check out our form.
Honduras Euchre Cup Scores as of 8/3/11
Euchre Score per team as of midnight 8/3/11
Won/Lost
Nick & Ashlynne = 1/0
Nick & Steve K = 1/0
Paul & Ben = 3/1
Ashlynne & Steve K = 4/2
John & Tim = 2/2
Steven B & Peter = 3/3
Paul & John = 1/1
Steven B & Nick = 0/1
Nick & Paul = 0/1
Ben & Peter = 0/2
This is a team championship must play at least 5 games with same partner to be crowned winner of the Honduras Euchre Cup Summer 2011.
Won/Lost
Nick & Ashlynne = 1/0
Nick & Steve K = 1/0
Paul & Ben = 3/1
Ashlynne & Steve K = 4/2
John & Tim = 2/2
Steven B & Peter = 3/3
Paul & John = 1/1
Steven B & Nick = 0/1
Nick & Paul = 0/1
Ben & Peter = 0/2
This is a team championship must play at least 5 games with same partner to be crowned winner of the Honduras Euchre Cup Summer 2011.
Moving the sign
Each day starts out with various work assignments. Matt gets a list of tasks that they would like to complete by the end of the day. He moves from project to project trying to keep us on track and helping out when he can. Today, he did work on the signing moving project.
Today, we had a canal project, minor brick building of a drainage wall, moving a sign, putting in a new post for a light, working in the nursery bathing the children and playing with them. When the projects are complete we go and ask who needs help finishing other projects.
Peter, Ben, and Paul were assigned to sign moving project. They had to dig a hole about 5 feet in diameter and about 4 feet deep and pull out the old post. The old post was in a hole about 5 feet in diameter and about 4 feet deep. They also had to mix the cement for the new hole and break up the cement around the old pole and move the pole (about 12 feet tall with the sign) to the new hole.
This sign was in front of the nursery where the two girls were working in the nursery. For some reason the children were making up songs about Ben, Paul, Peter and Matt.
I was not at the work site when the singing took place but from what I was told everybody was having a great time and it made the work go faster.
The sign got moved and it looks great.
Today, we had a canal project, minor brick building of a drainage wall, moving a sign, putting in a new post for a light, working in the nursery bathing the children and playing with them. When the projects are complete we go and ask who needs help finishing other projects.
Peter, Ben, and Paul were assigned to sign moving project. They had to dig a hole about 5 feet in diameter and about 4 feet deep and pull out the old post. The old post was in a hole about 5 feet in diameter and about 4 feet deep. They also had to mix the cement for the new hole and break up the cement around the old pole and move the pole (about 12 feet tall with the sign) to the new hole.
This sign was in front of the nursery where the two girls were working in the nursery. For some reason the children were making up songs about Ben, Paul, Peter and Matt.
I was not at the work site when the singing took place but from what I was told everybody was having a great time and it made the work go faster.
The sign got moved and it looks great.
Digging the Panama Canal
We were assigned to dig a canal along one of the buildings for the drainage of rain water. The project was to make a canal about 40 feet long about 3 feet wide and various depths from 1 to 2 ½ feet with some slope.
Well, it took me just less than 10 minutes to find out that swinging a pick in a hot humid climate is not my calling.
I started with good intentions but my body just was not going to have anything to do with this pick swinging.
Our team was Steven, Nick, Tim and I. John joined later after he was done with doing some brick work on a short project.
The group was great we joked all day at my “pick” skills but we found a way for me to help the team.
I got on my knees and moved the dirt with my hands helping to load the wheel barrow and then empty as needed.
Why the Panama Canal? we were all talking about how the workers built that canal in the hot, humid weather. Here we all were struggling just to complete this project and we could not imagine what they had been through.
We were a team, joking, laughing, and working together finding how each of us could help the team finish the project on time.
I can say this, Tim and Steven can really swing that pick and Nick and John can move a lot of dirt with their shovels. They kept that wheel barrow filled.
I learned that you must keep drinking lots of water and the team watches out for each other.
As with anything, when others complete their projects they come and help out. You can see that in the last few pictures where the the girls can be seen helping out.
You have to pace yourself in the heat. We had a better appreciation for our Honduran workers. They work hard and do this every day.
The next task with our canal is to do the cement work and finish this project on Wednesday.
Well, it took me just less than 10 minutes to find out that swinging a pick in a hot humid climate is not my calling.
I started with good intentions but my body just was not going to have anything to do with this pick swinging.
Our team was Steven, Nick, Tim and I. John joined later after he was done with doing some brick work on a short project.
The group was great we joked all day at my “pick” skills but we found a way for me to help the team.
I got on my knees and moved the dirt with my hands helping to load the wheel barrow and then empty as needed.
Why the Panama Canal? we were all talking about how the workers built that canal in the hot, humid weather. Here we all were struggling just to complete this project and we could not imagine what they had been through.
We were a team, joking, laughing, and working together finding how each of us could help the team finish the project on time.
I can say this, Tim and Steven can really swing that pick and Nick and John can move a lot of dirt with their shovels. They kept that wheel barrow filled.
I learned that you must keep drinking lots of water and the team watches out for each other.
As with anything, when others complete their projects they come and help out. You can see that in the last few pictures where the the girls can be seen helping out.
You have to pace yourself in the heat. We had a better appreciation for our Honduran workers. They work hard and do this every day.
The next task with our canal is to do the cement work and finish this project on Wednesday.
Just got back from a hard day of work
What a day! This group is just fantastic. I cannot wait to share the pictures and the experiences of today.
I really believe I know why I am on this trip. It is more than just doing something with my sons.
I am with 2 young men who I have gotten to know over the past few years as they attended UDJHSA and in some ways I look at them as sons (Ben and Paul).
Just outstanding young men, in fact, all of the guys are ( the 2 girls are also just as great). I will share more later on why I am making these statements.
I am hot and need that cold shower, then dinner, reflections and posting my thoughts.
I really believe I know why I am on this trip. It is more than just doing something with my sons.
I am with 2 young men who I have gotten to know over the past few years as they attended UDJHSA and in some ways I look at them as sons (Ben and Paul).
Just outstanding young men, in fact, all of the guys are ( the 2 girls are also just as great). I will share more later on why I am making these statements.
I am hot and need that cold shower, then dinner, reflections and posting my thoughts.
The Start of Day 3
Again, had a great sleep. We went to bed around 12:30 AM. My pillow is excellent. I know the pillow is not the only reason why I am sleeping so great, but it is a great pillow.
We have a fan in the room, so we get a nice cool breeze while we sleep.
After we get up, we have a morning prayer, then breakfast. As in the past few days the food is just excellent and the staff does a great job.
I just found out some of my pictures have not posted and they are very small to view. Please accept my apology if you had difficulty with them. I will fix it later tonight after reflection.
Euchre again is the game of choice.
I will post team standings tonight.
We have a fan in the room, so we get a nice cool breeze while we sleep.
After we get up, we have a morning prayer, then breakfast. As in the past few days the food is just excellent and the staff does a great job.
I just found out some of my pictures have not posted and they are very small to view. Please accept my apology if you had difficulty with them. I will fix it later tonight after reflection.
Euchre again is the game of choice.
I will post team standings tonight.
Random pictures and thoughts from Day 2
This is the day all of us have been waiting for. Getting to work and meeting the students.
We all have taken pictures. I have just grouped all of my pictures from our first day into on general album. It will show mostly the school and the children and us interacting with them. The children have smiles all the time on their faces. Each one captured our hearts. They sang for us, danced with us and talked with us.
What is strange is that the pictures tell one part of the story. All of my senses are not coming through as you view the pictures. You have the sight of the pictures but not the smell or the sound or feel of the heat and humidity.
The other interesting thing we saw today was going into someone's home today and seeing them use an oil barrel lid to cook.
I have so many thoughts my mind has to sort this out.
For now I will let the pictures tell the story.
We all have taken pictures. I have just grouped all of my pictures from our first day into on general album. It will show mostly the school and the children and us interacting with them. The children have smiles all the time on their faces. Each one captured our hearts. They sang for us, danced with us and talked with us.
What is strange is that the pictures tell one part of the story. All of my senses are not coming through as you view the pictures. You have the sight of the pictures but not the smell or the sound or feel of the heat and humidity.
The other interesting thing we saw today was going into someone's home today and seeing them use an oil barrel lid to cook.
I have so many thoughts my mind has to sort this out.
For now I will let the pictures tell the story.
Monday, August 1, 2011
Transportation
It is something to be walking down a dirt road and a man on a horse goes by you at the same time as a person on a motor cycle. Next you will see a person on a bike go by you, and then nexta horse pulling a cart with food and people. I have seen all types of transportation in a matter of a few minutes.
Here are some pictures.
Here are some pictures.
The Dump
I am not sure where to start my thoughts.
I think ever member of the team has seen poverty at different times in our lives. Seeing the people and the activity at the dump I think has changed all of us in some way.
I have seen pictures of this life style but being here first hand is something else. I am having a hard time explaining it.
I will just let the pictures tell the story. I do have videos and will post later this week.
I think ever member of the team has seen poverty at different times in our lives. Seeing the people and the activity at the dump I think has changed all of us in some way.
I have seen pictures of this life style but being here first hand is something else. I am having a hard time explaining it.
I will just let the pictures tell the story. I do have videos and will post later this week.
Day 2 quick thoughts after a great day of work
The sights, sounds, and yes the smell of today was overwhelming. We just got back from a very productive day.
I am not sure where to start with my thoughts.
As I start to write it is pouring rain and I am thinking of all the children we have seen today and how for the majority of them, the place they call home probably has rain water leaking from the roof or the water is just running into their home.
I am in a nice retreat house safe and dry; I just took a cold shower and feel refreshed. Waiting for dinner in a about ½ an hour.
Steven Basile made this comment when we were at the “dump”: "pictures and movies do not tell the complete story, you have to smell this to understand what is going on in a place like this."
Again, so many different feelings and thoughts today, I will break them down later with pictures.
A quick one is when we were in the nursery and Ben was dancing with the children and he started the center dance with his "shimmy shake" move and then we all had to do it. The children just grab at your heart and soul. The smiles are so wide and bright.
More later, off to dinner and then reflections.
I am not sure where to start with my thoughts.
As I start to write it is pouring rain and I am thinking of all the children we have seen today and how for the majority of them, the place they call home probably has rain water leaking from the roof or the water is just running into their home.
I am in a nice retreat house safe and dry; I just took a cold shower and feel refreshed. Waiting for dinner in a about ½ an hour.
Steven Basile made this comment when we were at the “dump”: "pictures and movies do not tell the complete story, you have to smell this to understand what is going on in a place like this."
Again, so many different feelings and thoughts today, I will break them down later with pictures.
A quick one is when we were in the nursery and Ben was dancing with the children and he started the center dance with his "shimmy shake" move and then we all had to do it. The children just grab at your heart and soul. The smiles are so wide and bright.
More later, off to dinner and then reflections.
Good morning HONDURAS
Great night sleep.
We played cards until 11 pm Honduras time.
Steven and Peter are leading in Euchre right now, will post the standings tonight.
It is beautiful here at the retreat house. Birds singing (as Steven said, "very tropical")also lots of bats flying around, great place to have as a home base.
The garden area is beautiful and relaxing.
We start work today. We all are ready to start.
The showers are COLD and refreshing.
Steven Basile took some pictures also yesterday and I will post tonight.
The showers are COLD and the weather is HOT and HUMID.
Nick, just joined us on the porch, he just said "I am relaxed, refreshed,have not felt this good in a long time."
He is reflecting on this past summer with Steven and myself. Very open and honest. He enjoyed his internship. Nuff said.
It is off to morning prayer.
We played cards until 11 pm Honduras time.
Steven and Peter are leading in Euchre right now, will post the standings tonight.
It is beautiful here at the retreat house. Birds singing (as Steven said, "very tropical")also lots of bats flying around, great place to have as a home base.
The garden area is beautiful and relaxing.
We start work today. We all are ready to start.
The showers are COLD and refreshing.
Steven Basile took some pictures also yesterday and I will post tonight.
The showers are COLD and the weather is HOT and HUMID.
Nick, just joined us on the porch, he just said "I am relaxed, refreshed,have not felt this good in a long time."
He is reflecting on this past summer with Steven and myself. Very open and honest. He enjoyed his internship. Nuff said.
It is off to morning prayer.
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